Expect Less (My perspective)
To avoid disappointments, better set yourself to expect less or never expect at all. Let things comes in form of surprises that will turn your world in a positive mode. Expectations varies from low to high level, through daily life experience I have learned that it is very difficult to trick yourself in a certain scenario on expecting things turning out positive or as what you’ve expected. When expectations are not achieved and it suddenly crashed in front of you, it will be off beat and will ruin your good mood and at the end you’re still the LOSER. So breathe in, breathe out and start to regain positive vibes to get rid of the bad omen. Start not to worry things which are out of your control. Don’t let those expectations over power you. Try not to be emotional if expectations pull off.
Always remember Less Expectations Less Disappointments.
Pray More (My perspective)
Prayers can move mountains. If you’re in the edge of expectation, pray more. If a brick suddenly fall at least you have something to cling on. Pray and ask for courage and strength so that if things don’t fall into place it will not cause you any harm. Prayers will always give you a positive head start to be ready even to the least unexpected things. In reality it is very hard not to expect but if our expectations are accompanied with prayers I am sure that no matter what kind of turn around will happen you’ll definitely stand on the right side of the boat.
Pray More and God will do the rest.
Why am I writing this? Simply because I am one of those who have high expectations but more often fall. I used to hate myself whenever I fail on things which I thought I could handle. But at the end of the day I am still the big LOSER. I have no one to blame. If those times I have prayed more than expecting more, I would have survive and never experience depression. Yet, I have not adjusted pretty well but I know where to get ultimate strength --- from GOD. God will surely be there for us anytime of the day and he knows what is best for us and of course to my hubby who’s always there to listen and understand my whining. Now I am starting to see things as a surprise as a way to expect less. It would be very hard to turn your back from expectations but if you don’t want to get hurt, learn how to handle things through your own perspective. There's nothing wrong if your expectations are high as long as you can hold your horses whenever you fail.
To avoid disappointments, better set yourself to expect less or never expect at all. Let things comes in form of surprises that will turn your world in a positive mode. Expectations varies from low to high level, through daily life experience I have learned that it is very difficult to trick yourself in a certain scenario on expecting things turning out positive or as what you’ve expected. When expectations are not achieved and it suddenly crashed in front of you, it will be off beat and will ruin your good mood and at the end you’re still the LOSER. So breathe in, breathe out and start to regain positive vibes to get rid of the bad omen. Start not to worry things which are out of your control. Don’t let those expectations over power you. Try not to be emotional if expectations pull off.
Always remember Less Expectations Less Disappointments.
Pray More (My perspective)
Prayers can move mountains. If you’re in the edge of expectation, pray more. If a brick suddenly fall at least you have something to cling on. Pray and ask for courage and strength so that if things don’t fall into place it will not cause you any harm. Prayers will always give you a positive head start to be ready even to the least unexpected things. In reality it is very hard not to expect but if our expectations are accompanied with prayers I am sure that no matter what kind of turn around will happen you’ll definitely stand on the right side of the boat.
Pray More and God will do the rest.
Why am I writing this? Simply because I am one of those who have high expectations but more often fall. I used to hate myself whenever I fail on things which I thought I could handle. But at the end of the day I am still the big LOSER. I have no one to blame. If those times I have prayed more than expecting more, I would have survive and never experience depression. Yet, I have not adjusted pretty well but I know where to get ultimate strength --- from GOD. God will surely be there for us anytime of the day and he knows what is best for us and of course to my hubby who’s always there to listen and understand my whining. Now I am starting to see things as a surprise as a way to expect less. It would be very hard to turn your back from expectations but if you don’t want to get hurt, learn how to handle things through your own perspective. There's nothing wrong if your expectations are high as long as you can hold your horses whenever you fail.
1 comment:
amen sis! i will take your advice, promise :)
Post a Comment