Saturday, February 28, 2009

5 YeArS iT hAs BeEn...

I never thought I’ll come this far. It was leap year on 28th February 2004, as I board the plane bound to Dubai while I nervously wait for the clock to tick at 23:55pm for the plane to depart from Manila. My heart is pounding, hands cold and shaking in nervousness, it’s like I'll be having a heart attack anytime. While my mind is also flying thinking of what future this new place will bring. A lot of questions linger in my head, particularly on how I will survive in this foreign land, would it be easy to adjust mainly in adopting their culture. This is my first time to be far from home, well just thinking of that gives me enormous goose bumps. 8 hours direct flight I have to endure as I was preoccupied with the twist and turn of my conk head.

29th February 2004 4:20 am (Dubai time) I heard the pilot says that our plane is about to land. I feel butterflies in my stomach that made me feel sick yet excited because I will be with my sister who’ll be my constant companion throughout my adjustment period. I was happy upon seeing my sister as she welcomes me and I felt that I’m home. Her smile assured me that I will be safe and secured. Though a bit sad because the next day will be my BF's birthday and I wont be around to celebrate the day with him, sigh!!!

As expected, hunting for a job was never that easy. After 2 weeks I got my first job as a clerk in an insurance company. The salary is just enough to cover my needs/expenses which is considerably better than nothing at all. It was past 2 weeks then when I receive a call for an interview, it’s a local bank. I have gone through series of interviews and exams and I’m glad that I was able to pass all those. Luckily I got hired as a support staff with a considerable pay. Landing to work in a bank was never in my thought, given that I hate numbers and the fact that I don’t have any banking experience, while all I want is to have a decent and good paying job. But God is great for he has given something which is least expected.

In Manila my day will not be complete without spending quality time with my BF, we’ve been apart for 3 long months since I landed in Dubai and that was the longest ever in our love history. End of May 2004 we’re finally back to each others arms, the feeling that time was unexplainable. And thank god we were able to establish our future in this country, the place where we struggle to be where we are right now.

Dubai will always have a special place in my heart. In the past 5 years, I have learned to love this country along with their culture as I embrace their way of living. In the midst of uncertainties I was able to conquer life in a land which is way different from the country I was raised.

With great pride and honor I am proud to be an OFW.



Wednesday, February 25, 2009

LeNt...

This Lent...........

Give up complaining.....focus on gratitude.
Give up pessimism...become an optimist.
Give up harsh judgements...think kindly thoughts.
Give up worry......trust Divine Providence.
Give up discouragement.....be full of hope.
Give up bitterness......turn to forgiveness.
Give up hatred.....return good for evil.
Give up negativism.....be a positive.
Give up anger......be more patient.
Give up pettiness.....become more mature.
Give up gloom.....enjoy the beauty that is all around you.
Give up jealousy....pray for trust.
Give up gossiping.....control your tongue.
Give up sin.....turn to virtue.
Give up giving up....hang in there !!!!!


Wishing you a prayerful and Relfective Lenten Season.

GOD BLESS YOU!!!




Sunday, February 22, 2009

FuN FiELd DaY...

Pre-Valentine Celebration @...





Atlantis, the Palm Dubai
Atlantis, a $1.5 billion resort development, is located at the centre of the crescent of the
Palm Jumeirah. Like its sister property in the Bahamas, Dubai’s Atlantis features two hotel towers linked by an arch. In total, the resort boasts 1,539 rooms and suites.
Atlantis opened in November 2008 with a multi-million dollar party headlined by Kylie Minogue and featuring a firework display that could be seen from space.
It is a joint development between
Kerzner International and Dubai Government owned company Istithmar.
source:
http://www.dubai-online.com/hotels/atlantis.htm

After our visit to Atlantis, we went straight to The Walk to have our early dinner at Chowking!


Our next stop, Madinat Jumeirah

The night ended with a good cup of coffee at Starbucks!

It was a tiring but fun field day!

Edited:

Look what we got, isn't it cool to have an anniversary gift like this?




Saturday, February 14, 2009

hEaRt...

happy hearts day!

spreading love to everyone

hope you'll have a great one!!!



Thursday, February 12, 2009

FaMiLy FeUd...

Nope, I’ll not talk about the famous game rather I’ll speak about the truth.

Our Dubai family is getting bigger and I am happy for that even though in reality there are always pros and cons. Way back 2004 our life was peaceful because it’s only me, hubby and sissy, the fact is, it is easier to compromise or handle a small group. But now our families/relatives are popping one by one which landed to some sort of misapprehension and miscommunication. I admit I’ve never been that good or have met their criteria hence I did try my best to jive with them. Nevertheless, I have my short comings most especially to our distant auntie who accepted us without any qualms during the time that we are in need. I would like to thank her and please accept our heartfelt apologies we didn’t mean to disregard you it’s the surrounding that constrain our relationship, I believe in due time things will be back into perspective.

On the other hand, Tsimis is the main root of every misunderstanding, most especially if you have a relative working in the same company, do you agree? Honest to goodness, I can’t deny the fact that Sissy is very supportive to all our relatives who came here to hunt for a job, she gave her full support may it be morally or financially. If she has good traits, she also exhibits the negative side of it and that’s for sure. Tactless and talkativeness is few of her negatives in which most people misinterpret. It really disappoints me when they don’t give any credit or neglect the things she has done for them or things turns out negatively. As I vividly recall all her stories about her bout with a certain relative, I can feel her pain but she stand to be strong despite the negative speculations roaming within. Remember there are always 2 sides of a coin, but why the heck they only see/hear one side. Sissy made her self clear and I am proud of her although this certain relative wants the issue to be closed and let it go with the wind in which I believe is not right. Hence, sissy thought things will work out that way as she agrees to close the book of their dispute but she was totally wrong. The Tsimis never stopped and they never learned.

Personally I am building boundaries with this certain relative along with the puppets. Besides, please let me seclude myself out of the shell and get rid of the master and the puppets. Frankly, my mouth is itching to fire sarcastic words but thank god I can still manage to hold my horses. I don’t want to embark with another issue that most probably will not benefit both our families, all I want is for us to live a peaceful and happy life. I will keep silent as long as I could but once you’ve gone over the moon, beware the tiger roars.

How I wish that people should learn to avoid pulling one’s string, significantly it’s not good if it happens within your family. I hope that one day they will come into terms in patching up things and this small family feud will end.

Not all times, helping others gives a positive turn around, it also entails kicking butts. Even if you have given your right hand and yet they still find ways to grab the other because they’re never satisfied. I guess it is best to be choosy sometimes.

Side note: Happy Birthday to my Big Boss! Cheers!!!
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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

rAnDoMnEsS...

I’m back in vengeance…

We’ve been busy this past few days sorting out things pertaining to emotional and psychological aspects. No-no-no, we’re not psychopaths, it’s just a matter of re-establishing one’s self to enjoy a lighter and meaningful year ahead of us or simply as what we envisioned it to be. So it would be better for us to live one step at a time.

Our focus this year is more on saving---saving---saving and as early as now I’m happy to say that we did excel and seems we’re not far from our target. Though I slightly lost my grip and gave in to shopping, well, I have to put the blame on the ongoing Dubai Shopping Festival, you know me --- I won’t let it pass. I do hope to surpass my weakness and itchiness in terms of shopping. I really find malls tempting and irresistible, gosh let me learn to tighten my pocket. How the hell I can do that if our weekly destination to bond and unwind is the mall, hmmmpppp, this will be a tough test for a compulsive shopper like me. What do you think is the best alternative to keep our bonding time active yet less expensive?

As of this writing, work is pretty much ok, thank god we still have the bread and butter to support our needs and our families as well. Nowadays it’s very difficult to predict things especially with the present global financial turmoil which makes it hard to sense security. If only we have funds to carry on for our future I would prefer for an early retirement and establish our own business. Yah I know it’s quite early to talk about it, but I am in the midst of uncertainties and feeling tired after being a corporate slave for over a decade. But once we’ll have our bundle of joy I would definitely settle to be a SAHM (insha‘allah), I’m sure hubby wouldn’t mind it. For the meantime, we should jump and shout for joy because we’re so blessed in many ways.

On health, our families are doing fine except for nanay (MIL) who’s been admitted to the hospital for some treatment concerning her bones particularly her knees. We pray that she’ll not undergo any operations and be cured by the help of medicines. Nanay is already old, I think she’s already 75 but if you’ll see her, she looks 10 years younger than her age. She’s strong and very active she even travels alone from Batangas to Manila whenever she goes for her monthly check-ups and routine family visits. Get well soon nanay and we love you.
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Updated on 12 Feb 2009:
Nanay (MIL) had undergone a knee operation this morning and currently in the recovery room. We all pray for your speedy recovery and hope you'll be home soon.

Well, I guess that’s all for now, I’ll be back to blog about our anniversary gift and etceteras.

xoxo
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