Nope, I’ll not talk about the famous game rather I’ll speak about the truth.
Our Dubai family is getting bigger and I am happy for that even though in reality there are always pros and cons. Way back 2004 our life was peaceful because it’s only me, hubby and sissy, the fact is, it is easier to compromise or handle a small group. But now our families/relatives are popping one by one which landed to some sort of misapprehension and miscommunication. I admit I’ve never been that good or have met their criteria hence I did try my best to jive with them. Nevertheless, I have my short comings most especially to our distant auntie who accepted us without any qualms during the time that we are in need. I would like to thank her and please accept our heartfelt apologies we didn’t mean to disregard you it’s the surrounding that constrain our relationship, I believe in due time things will be back into perspective.
On the other hand, Tsimis is the main root of every misunderstanding, most especially if you have a relative working in the same company, do you agree? Honest to goodness, I can’t deny the fact that Sissy is very supportive to all our relatives who came here to hunt for a job, she gave her full support may it be morally or financially. If she has good traits, she also exhibits the negative side of it and that’s for sure. Tactless and talkativeness is few of her negatives in which most people misinterpret. It really disappoints me when they don’t give any credit or neglect the things she has done for them or things turns out negatively. As I vividly recall all her stories about her bout with a certain relative, I can feel her pain but she stand to be strong despite the negative speculations roaming within. Remember there are always 2 sides of a coin, but why the heck they only see/hear one side. Sissy made her self clear and I am proud of her although this certain relative wants the issue to be closed and let it go with the wind in which I believe is not right. Hence, sissy thought things will work out that way as she agrees to close the book of their dispute but she was totally wrong. The Tsimis never stopped and they never learned.
Personally I am building boundaries with this certain relative along with the puppets. Besides, please let me seclude myself out of the shell and get rid of the master and the puppets. Frankly, my mouth is itching to fire sarcastic words but thank god I can still manage to hold my horses. I don’t want to embark with another issue that most probably will not benefit both our families, all I want is for us to live a peaceful and happy life. I will keep silent as long as I could but once you’ve gone over the moon, beware the tiger roars.
How I wish that people should learn to avoid pulling one’s string, significantly it’s not good if it happens within your family. I hope that one day they will come into terms in patching up things and this small family feud will end.
Not all times, helping others gives a positive turn around, it also entails kicking butts. Even if you have given your right hand and yet they still find ways to grab the other because they’re never satisfied. I guess it is best to be choosy sometimes.
Our Dubai family is getting bigger and I am happy for that even though in reality there are always pros and cons. Way back 2004 our life was peaceful because it’s only me, hubby and sissy, the fact is, it is easier to compromise or handle a small group. But now our families/relatives are popping one by one which landed to some sort of misapprehension and miscommunication. I admit I’ve never been that good or have met their criteria hence I did try my best to jive with them. Nevertheless, I have my short comings most especially to our distant auntie who accepted us without any qualms during the time that we are in need. I would like to thank her and please accept our heartfelt apologies we didn’t mean to disregard you it’s the surrounding that constrain our relationship, I believe in due time things will be back into perspective.
On the other hand, Tsimis is the main root of every misunderstanding, most especially if you have a relative working in the same company, do you agree? Honest to goodness, I can’t deny the fact that Sissy is very supportive to all our relatives who came here to hunt for a job, she gave her full support may it be morally or financially. If she has good traits, she also exhibits the negative side of it and that’s for sure. Tactless and talkativeness is few of her negatives in which most people misinterpret. It really disappoints me when they don’t give any credit or neglect the things she has done for them or things turns out negatively. As I vividly recall all her stories about her bout with a certain relative, I can feel her pain but she stand to be strong despite the negative speculations roaming within. Remember there are always 2 sides of a coin, but why the heck they only see/hear one side. Sissy made her self clear and I am proud of her although this certain relative wants the issue to be closed and let it go with the wind in which I believe is not right. Hence, sissy thought things will work out that way as she agrees to close the book of their dispute but she was totally wrong. The Tsimis never stopped and they never learned.
Personally I am building boundaries with this certain relative along with the puppets. Besides, please let me seclude myself out of the shell and get rid of the master and the puppets. Frankly, my mouth is itching to fire sarcastic words but thank god I can still manage to hold my horses. I don’t want to embark with another issue that most probably will not benefit both our families, all I want is for us to live a peaceful and happy life. I will keep silent as long as I could but once you’ve gone over the moon, beware the tiger roars.
How I wish that people should learn to avoid pulling one’s string, significantly it’s not good if it happens within your family. I hope that one day they will come into terms in patching up things and this small family feud will end.
Not all times, helping others gives a positive turn around, it also entails kicking butts. Even if you have given your right hand and yet they still find ways to grab the other because they’re never satisfied. I guess it is best to be choosy sometimes.
Side note: Happy Birthday to my Big Boss! Cheers!!!
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